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The Fanlistings – The End

September 27th, 2015

For some time nightmare-relm has been home to two Fanlistings CSI and Quantum Leap they have both been here for a number of years and last year the Quantum Leap one was removed from the Fanlisting Network as it had not been updated for over three months – I was not overly concerned as no new members had joined for quite some time and the same can be said for the CSI Fanlisting. The internet has changed a great deal over the years as does how people use the internet – why have a list of people who like a particular subject when a facebook page can be more interactive.

Last week I got an email from The Fanlistings Network advising me that I had not updated the CSI Fanlisting for over two months and that I needed to correct the problem and reply to the email (jump through some hoops) I made the decision at that time to update the fanlisting but not to reply to the email.

I checked my emails today and the fanlisting has been removed and to be quite honest with you I am relieved and truth be told I did like CSI at one point in time but I stopped buying the DVD’s after season 4 and stopped watching the show. People change as do their interests, as I have already mentioned no new member has joined for quite a few months and with a membership of 6162 I have no way of knowing how many are still active but it has been great over the years and has in a way helped to support the website (via advertising) and monies gained from advertisers who have wanted to target these 6000 people have paid for me to go on holiday etc – of course that all dried up years ago.

So the CSI fanlisting will eventually be taken down as it will serve no useful purpose the episode guides are old and can be found in much more detail elsewhere. The list of fans is a drain on my resources (database) and I no longer watch the show – I do believe that the original series is due to end shortly anyway so looks like a good time to call it quits!

Thank you CSI Fanlisting for giving me something to work on all those years ago.

A fool

September 27th, 2015

I have been a fool…

I have always considered myself to be good with money, I have even given financial advice to my friends on how to save and budget but I have not listened to my own advice. I currently have two credit cards – a Barclaycard and an American Express card and have had them for a number of years, originally I would use them during the month and pay them off in full when the bill came along – I suppose getting a little extra spending power, then something happened and I can’t really put my finger on it I assume some large expense came up and it was put on the one of the credit cards and I was not in a position to pay it off.

I ended up paying the minimum amount while I concentrated my efforts on saving, a rather backwards way of doing things but I suppose I rationalized it as being better to have savings so I could become less reliant on credit cards for unexpected expenses.

In fact I took out a loan a few years back and used some of that money to pay off what I owed so it is alarming to have found myself back in a position where I had racked up credit card debts and was only making the minimum payment each month. I should point out that the total debt has never been more than about £2000 over the two cards (I know that others would have debts a lot higher than this).

Each month the minimum amount was being paid which was about £21 per card and of this only half was actually paying off the debt as the other half was essentially only paying off the interest. I have had the money to pay off both the cards for some time but had been reluctant do to so.

Every month I have been able to squirrel away over 10% of my wages into various savings accounts, I needed to get a new car so checking what I could afford I took out a loan and was was lucky enough to have some money gifted to me from my grandparents, the car was purchased in February and it was also around this time that I made the decision to move from my £60 a week bedsit to something bigger. Purely coincidental that I met a woman at the end of last year as well.

Speaking to friends I knew the move would be expenses and maybe at that time I should have considered my finances and looked to amend things but I did not and moved in and have generally been able to manage the bills. In May I did make a decision to use savings to take a bite out of my credit card debts and paid £600 off the American Express card – which had the desired effect of reducing the minimum payment each month, however I should have continued to pay the higher amount – hindsight is a wonderful thing.

So today as I know I need to find £277 for my water bill I took money from my “car” fund and have paid over £300 off the American Express card which leave a balance that can be easily paid off next month.

This was my top priority debt to clear but still leaves me with the Barclaycard and the £1000 owed on that which needs to be cleared at the same time as ensuring I have enough money to live and that money can be put away for Christmas etc.

I suppose the poor interest rate here has helped me come to my sensible decision to pay off the credit and save on interest charges.

So next to look at my finances and reduce the amount I am saving each month to ensure my debts can be paid off quicker only then can I put all my efforts into savings.

Summer Update

August 19th, 2015

Where has the time gone?

I’ve never been really good at this blogging thing and truth be told very few people visit the site anymore but I do check emails and still have a presence online (just in other places)

A lot of time is spent over at Llangunnor Network my latest project and even that has suffered a little due to my hectic life. To try to write an update about everything that has happened since my last post in April would be very difficult but needless to say I am still sorting out my DVD collection.

I feel that I need to slim down my collection from around the 500 mark, don’t really have an idea of what figure I want to get them down to but after amassing this collection over a number of years I want to try to make sure that I get a reasonable return – something that is unlikely to happen.

I mentioned MusicMagpie in my last entry and I did eventually get a cheque off them for the last set of DVD’s I sent to them – they only refused to pay for one as it did not pass the quality control but it did take over a month before the money was finally in my account.

I’m currently looking at other avenues in which to sell more DVD’s.

My weight loss has stagnated, I did reach a record low at the start of June but feel that I have taken my eyes off the ball and certain foods have crept back into my diet – I will need to re-evaluate what I need to do.

Music Magpie and De-cluttering

April 11th, 2015

How odd two entries from me in the same day! As part of me moving I have had to seriously consider de-cluttering – something I have mentioned on here many times before and after packing over 500 dvds I thought I would weed out those dvds I no longer want. It did not take me long to get about 100 together and did consider doing a car boot sale with all the stuff I wanted to get rid of but realised that it would be quicker to get rid of things in bulk. I decided to try out Musicmagpie so downloaded an “App” for my phone which scans the bar codes on the dvds and gives a value straight away.

Not wanting to send things away I did go to a local cash-converters store but they would only pay £0.10 per dvd regardless of what the dvd was, so got rid of about 30 dvd’s here as I could not face taking them back home.

I had also boxed up about £17 worth of dvds (about 18 in total) to see how much luck I have with Musicmagpie I do like the terms and conditions regarding condition of the dvds as I feel it is open to abuse as if it does not pass the quality check they keep the item and you don’t get paid for it.

My book collection is also being reduced but I don’t seem to be having much luck with selling them so have given a box away and am likely to get rid of more in the same way.

Moving, diets and Big Lunches

April 11th, 2015

Again been a while since I last updated and what a busy few weeks it has been as I’ve been moving. Seems such a long time ago that I moved into a bedsit in Carmarthen (it was July 2002) and was only supposed to be a short term thing but as with other things it becomes comfortable and easy which is why I have remained there for so long.

In the past I have thought about moving somewhere bigger (better) but have never really gotten anywhere with it and the idea has soon passed. I suppose late last year the idea came back into my head and for a number of reasons decided to press ahead with finding somewhere else.

Finally moved in 19th March but have been clearing out the old place for the last few weeks (and clearing out my stuff) and was glad to get my full deposit back from my old landlord this morning, as at the moment all I seem to be getting is bills daily!!

Diet or my reduced eating plan has been a little on/off over the last few weeks as I’ve been missing meals or eating the wrong types of food but weighed myself this morning and have lost another 2lb – this brings the total weight lost to just under 3 stone in the last three months.

The Big Lunch Llangunnor is ticking along nicely have managed to get some volunteers to make the sandwiches, which is a big relief and much cheaper for me to just buy the raw materials and not have to pay for a caterer. Still looking for a cake for the centrepiece and other things like that. Anyone know of a couple of facepainters that would be willing to give their services for free on 7th June?